Some years ago, I transported an elderly, blind lady to her dentist. Helping her out of the car, we approached the entrance and I said, “There are three steps ahead”. Her response was, “It would be more helpful if you told me if they were up or down!” We both laughed but it made an impression on me that I try to remember even today, though not always successfully.
This memory was awakened while watching a programme that featured a blind man fishing! In preparing to cast his line into the ocean the hook was caught on a piece of wood behind him and he became very frustrated attempting to release it. Yes, it was an American TV show, and someone came along and helped him. I never cease to be amazed what so many blind people can accomplish amazing things. One blind man I worked with told me that in the summer he would make jam. The thought of him pouring very hot jam into jars was scary.
My opening experience encouraged me to ponder our communication skills as Christians. I recall a young woman explaining that on her first visit to a church, she had no idea what to do or when. Even as a Christian for many years, I recall how hesitant I was to take communion for the first time in a church of a different tradition.
PRAYER: Heavenly Father, when we proclaim that “all are welcome” may our compassion extend beyond the welcome at the door and be available to ensure visitors “feel at home” and free from embarrassment. AMEN